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My Story

Hi, I am 

Avery Murphy

I was 15 years old the first time I was hospitalized for suicidal ideation.

After years of hating myself for not being perfect, I finally admitted to my therapist that I had a plan to kill myself.

It is still, to this day, one of the hardest things I've ever done.

Avery Murphy and sister
Avery Murphy selfie
Avery Murphy and Mom Cindy Tank-Murphy
Family picture in Ireland

That experience became the turning point that changed the direction of my life.

Today, I am a mental health advocate and public speaker with a mission to create honest, stigma-free conversations about mental health for youth, parents, educators, corporate teams, nonprofit organizations, and communities.

I know what it feels like to believe your worth is tied to perfection. To stay silent because you don’t want to be a burden. To assume everyone else is handling life better than you are. For years, I carried those beliefs quietly — until speaking up saved my life.

Now, I use my story to help others find the words I once struggled to say.

My talks blend personal storytelling with education and connection. I meet audiences where they are — whether that’s a middle school classroom, a high school assembly, a parent night, a nonprofit event, or a corporate training — and work to create spaces where honesty feels safe and supported.

I have spoken to hundreds of students and regularly hear from young people who share their stories with me for the first time after a presentation. Those moments are constant reminders of why this work matters: no one should leave a room believing they are weak for struggling or alone in their pain.

I speak openly about depression, anxiety, stigma, perfectionism, and vulnerability —to normalize the conversations we’ve been taught to avoid. My goal is not awareness alone, but understanding. Not just sharing stories, but helping people feel less alone in their own.

At the heart of everything I do is this belief: real change happens when we stop treating mental health as a taboo and start treating it as a shared human experience.

If your school, organization, or community is ready to open real conversations about mental health — conversations rooted in honesty, empathy, and care — I would be honored to work with you.

Avery Murphy in Peru
Avery Murphy Graduation with parents
Machu Picchu Trip

Previous Speaking Engagements

Naperville CUSD 203

Naperville North High School

Naperville Central High School

Lisle CUSD 202

Lisle High School

Glenbard Township High School District 87

Hadley Junior High

Glenbard West High School

Glenbard South High School

Glenbard East High School

Community Consolidated School District 89

Glen Crest Middle School

Community High School District 99

Downers Grove South High School

DuPage High School District 88

Addison Trail High School

Indian Prairie School District 204

Metea Valley High School

Waubonsie Valley High School

​Neuqua Valley High School

Fischer Middle School

Elmhurst CUSD 205

​York High School

​Churchville Middle School

Glen Ellyn School District 44

Hadley Junior High

Community HS District 99

Downers Grove North High School

Lake Park Community High School District 108

Lake Park East High School

Maercker School District 60

Westview Hills Middle School

Community Unit School District 200

Wheaton North High School

Lombard School District 44

Glenn Westlake Middle School

Center Cass School District 66

Lakeview Junior High

Downers Grove Grade School District 58

O'Neil Middle School

Queen Bee School District 16

Glenside Middle School

Benedictine University

Depression & Anxiety Presentation

Alive Center

Mental Health Panelist

 NAMI DuPage Connection Recovery Support Group Facilitator

Parent Roundtable

Illinois State Representative Janet Yang Rohr Mental Health Awareness Month Panelist

Watch the event: Facebook Live – May 7, 2024

2025 NAMI DuPage County Wide Institute Day

2025 Speaker & 2026 Panel Moderator

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