My Story
Hi, I am
Avery Murphy
I was 15 years old the first time I was hospitalized for suicidal ideation.
After years of hating myself for not being perfect, I finally admitted to my therapist that I had a plan to kill myself.
It is still, to this day, one of the hardest things I've ever done.




That experience became the turning point that changed the direction of my life.
Today, I am a mental health advocate and public speaker with a mission to create honest, stigma-free conversations about mental health for youth, parents, educators, corporate teams, nonprofit organizations, and communities.
I know what it feels like to believe your worth is tied to perfection. To stay silent because you don’t want to be a burden. To assume everyone else is handling life better than you are. For years, I carried those beliefs quietly — until speaking up saved my life.
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Now, I use my story to help others find the words I once struggled to say.
My talks blend personal storytelling with education and connection. I meet audiences where they are — whether that’s a middle school classroom, a high school assembly, a parent night, a nonprofit event, or a corporate training — and work to create spaces where honesty feels safe and supported.
I have spoken to hundreds of students and regularly hear from young people who share their stories with me for the first time after a presentation. Those moments are constant reminders of why this work matters: no one should leave a room believing they are weak for struggling or alone in their pain.
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I speak openly about depression, anxiety, stigma, perfectionism, and vulnerability —to normalize the conversations we’ve been taught to avoid. My goal is not awareness alone, but understanding. Not just sharing stories, but helping people feel less alone in their own.
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At the heart of everything I do is this belief: real change happens when we stop treating mental health as a taboo and start treating it as a shared human experience.
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If your school, organization, or community is ready to open real conversations about mental health — conversations rooted in honesty, empathy, and care — I would be honored to work with you.



Previous Speaking Engagements
Naperville CUSD 203
Naperville North High School
Naperville Central Highschool
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Lisle CUSD 202
Lisle High School
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Glenbard Township High School District 87
Hadley Junior High
Glenbard West High School
Glenbard South High School
Glenbard East High School
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Community Consolidated School District 89
Glen Crest Middle School
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Community High School District 99
Downers Grove South High School
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DuPage High School District 88
Addison Trail High School
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Indian Prairie School District 204
Metea Valley High School
Waubonsie Valley High School
​Neuqua Valley High School
Fischer Middle School
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​Elmhurst CUSD 205
​York High School
​Churchville Middle School
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Glen Ellyn School District 44
Hadley Junior High
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Community HS District 99
Downers Grove North High School
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Lake Park Community High School District 108
Lake Park East High School
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Maercker School District 60
Westview Hills Middle School
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Community Unit School District 200
Wheaton North High School
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Lombard School District 44
Glenn Westlake Middle School
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Center Cass School District 66
Lakeview Junior High
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Downers Grove Grade School District 58
O'Neil Middle School
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Queen Bee School District 16
Glenside Middle School
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Benedictine University
Depression & Anxiety Presentation
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Alive Center
Mental Health Panelist
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NAMI DuPage Connection Recovery Support Group Facilitator
Parent Roundtable
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Illinois State Representative Janet Yang Rohr Mental Health Awareness Month Panelist
​Watch the event: Facebook Live – May 7, 2024
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2025 NAMI DuPage County Wide Institute Day
2025 Speaker & 2026 Panel Moderator
